Cultivating a Nonjudgmental Attitude

On February 15, 2010, in correctional psychiatry, by Lockup Doc

How many times do we condemn or agree before hearing the other side of a story? How many times do we stand accused of not listening carefully? How many times do we misinterpret or misunderstand a gesture, a word, an intention? Why do we assume that we know so much about other people’s lives even though we clearly do not? And, even if we did, why do we think we know what’s best when it comes to how others should live their lives?

Through our cumulative experiences in life, the figurative spectacles through which we see the world become tainted. We, unlike small children, lose the ability to see all things as they are. Instead, we see things through our tainted lenses and think we know best.

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